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Ask Kristi: “A Lonely Intellectual”

Posted June 17, 2011 by Kristi

Dear Kristi, I am a PhD student at UBC and have been an academic and intellectual my whole life. Recently I met a guy at a bar that I was super attracted to, and we ended up hooking up. The next day I found out that he is a mail man. I don’t think of […]

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Sex + Love

What is this Love? Part 5 “Pablo Nerudic”

Posted September 22, 2011 by Kyle

Read the last instalment of What is this Love? Part 4 here. “Who the fuck are you?!”, Pablo’s screeched, in a surprisingly fruity tone. For his build and size, I just well, expected him to be a little more butch. Pablo’s entrance woke up Ricky, who, after hacking up a lung, came to my defence. […]

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Sex + Love

What is this Love? Part 4 “My Place or Yours?”

Posted September 12, 2011 by Kyle

It burns going down. Wafting up my esophagus, the fermented agave evaporates into a gaseous drug that I feel enter my sinuses through the back of my throat. Inside outwards. I release a small belch. He finds it cute and pulls me in for another kiss. “Ewww!”, he says! “Well you could have waited!”, I replied […]

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Dating

Friends With Benefits: Notes On Modern Queer Relationships

Posted September 15, 2011 by Elie

When it comes to relationships, we all have our horror stories. By the age of 25, having waded through the often treacherous waters of queer romance, many of us are left with enough battle scars to last a lifetime. Yes, love can indeed be a battlefield, but the same could be said of friendships. Queer […]

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Ask Kristi Anything: “Sick of Her Past”

Posted September 8, 2011 by Kristi

Dear Kristi, I am a 25-year-old straight girl with an any-girl problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for three months and he is wonderful, sensistive and carring. Unfortunately his sensitivity has become a bit of an issue. See, this is my first consensually sexual relationship. I lost my virginity when I was raped a few […]

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Sex + Love

What is this Love? Part 2 “Soaked”

Posted August 1, 2011 by Kyle

Ouch. Ouch! Ok. I’m done. No more. James was my fuck buddy from a few years back. I was pretty pissed about the whole “Pablo” thing that I needed to take my mind off things. James was things, I guess. “What’s wrong?”, he asked in a what the fuck is wrong with you kinda way. […]

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Gender + Sexuality

Guelph Is So Gay! A Lesbian Coming-of-Age Story

Posted February 7, 2012 by Nikki

Every morning when I wake up… okay I go back to sleep. But when I do wake up (for the 6th time) I thank god I am gay. I never thought this day would come because for as long as I can remember, my sexuality was always something that bothered me. I wished I were […]

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Sex + Love

M is for Masturbation: Kristi talks plugs, sleeves and dildos

Posted May 16, 2012 by Kristi

May is National Masturbation month (hooray!); and while not required, sex toys are a great way to enhance your masturbation! And since it’s the trendy thing to write about this May (jezebel!) I’m going to write about selecting your first sex toy. Buying a sex toy, especially for the first time, can be a difficult […]

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