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Ask Kristi: “Quality Bum-Play Lube Needed?”

Posted June 23, 2011 by Kristi

Dear Kristi, Can you recommend good lubes for anal, vaginal, toys, etc? Sincerely, Bum-Player Dear Bum-Player, That’s a good question, because most people wouldn’t differentiate between those activities and the different lubes you should use. Lots of sexually adventurous and vanilla peeps alike would think that popping by your local Pharmaprix/Shoppers and picking up a […]

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Ask Kristi: “A Lonely Intellectual”

Posted June 17, 2011 by Kristi

Dear Kristi, I am a PhD student at UBC and have been an academic and intellectual my whole life. Recently I met a guy at a bar that I was super attracted to, and we ended up hooking up. The next day I found out that he is a mail man. I don’t think of […]

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Meet Kristi: She knows gay people

Posted May 13, 2011 by Kristi

Hi GLBTQ people! I’m a straight, white 25-year-old girl and I’m here to give you advice on how to unlock your inner FABULOUS and talk about that abnormal place you like to put your junk (ie – bottoms!) and how to get it there. Because I KNOW gay people! Worst. Intro. Ever. Ok, so the […]

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Friends With Benefits: Notes On Modern Queer Relationships

Posted September 15, 2011 by Elie

When it comes to relationships, we all have our horror stories. By the age of 25, having waded through the often treacherous waters of queer romance, many of us are left with enough battle scars to last a lifetime. Yes, love can indeed be a battlefield, but the same could be said of friendships. Queer […]

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Gender + Sexuality

Guelph Is So Gay! A Lesbian Coming-of-Age Story

Posted February 7, 2012 by Nikki

Every morning when I wake up… okay I go back to sleep. But when I do wake up (for the 6th time) I thank god I am gay. I never thought this day would come because for as long as I can remember, my sexuality was always something that bothered me. I wished I were […]

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Ask Kristi Anything: “Sick of Her Past”

Posted September 8, 2011 by Kristi

Dear Kristi, I am a 25-year-old straight girl with an any-girl problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for three months and he is wonderful, sensistive and carring. Unfortunately his sensitivity has become a bit of an issue. See, this is my first consensually sexual relationship. I lost my virginity when I was raped a few […]

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Sex + Love

What is this Love? Part 7: “The Body”

Posted November 21, 2011 by Kyle

I was unsure what to do. I was panicking on the inside while trying to keep my cool on the outside. Ricky seemed inconsolable. I tried to snap him too and get his attention. I needed to know exactly what happened. “Ricky! What the hell happened?!” I slapped him across the face. Hard. The wet […]

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What is this Love? Part 3 “The Chub and the Club”

Posted August 11, 2011 by Kyle

I was sweating bullets. I was so nervous, but I was so turned on. Voyeuristic, public kinda things really get me hot.

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