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Sex + Love

What is this Love? Part 7: “The Body”

Posted November 21, 2011 by Kyle

I was unsure what to do. I was panicking on the inside while trying to keep my cool on the outside. Ricky seemed inconsolable. I tried to snap him too and get his attention. I needed to know exactly what happened. “Ricky! What the hell happened?!” I slapped him across the face. Hard. The wet […]

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Sex + Love

M is for Masturbation: Kristi talks plugs, sleeves and dildos

Posted May 16, 2012 by Kristi

May is National Masturbation month (hooray!); and while not required, sex toys are a great way to enhance your masturbation! And since it’s the trendy thing to write about this May (jezebel!) I’m going to write about selecting your first sex toy. Buying a sex toy, especially for the first time, can be a difficult […]

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Dating

Friends With Benefits: Notes On Modern Queer Relationships

Posted September 15, 2011 by Elie

When it comes to relationships, we all have our horror stories. By the age of 25, having waded through the often treacherous waters of queer romance, many of us are left with enough battle scars to last a lifetime. Yes, love can indeed be a battlefield, but the same could be said of friendships. Queer […]

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Ask Kristi: “Quality Bum-Play Lube Needed?”

Posted June 23, 2011 by Kristi

Dear Kristi, Can you recommend good lubes for anal, vaginal, toys, etc? Sincerely, Bum-Player Dear Bum-Player, That’s a good question, because most people wouldn’t differentiate between those activities and the different lubes you should use. Lots of sexually adventurous and vanilla peeps alike would think that popping by your local Pharmaprix/Shoppers and picking up a […]

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What is this Love? Part 9: The Clean-Up

Posted October 22, 2012 by Kyle

This is a fictional boymance/mystery series exclusive to The Gaily, from contributor Kyle Vaughn Roerick. Catch up with parts 1-8 here. This time, whispering was no longer an option. The noise that came out of my gut, my chest, and eventually out of my mouth echoed throughout Pablo’s apartment. The next thing I felt was the […]

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Ask Kristi: “A Lonely Intellectual”

Posted June 17, 2011 by Kristi

Dear Kristi, I am a PhD student at UBC and have been an academic and intellectual my whole life. Recently I met a guy at a bar that I was super attracted to, and we ended up hooking up. The next day I found out that he is a mail man. I don’t think of […]

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My Big Fat Straight Marriage

Posted July 1, 2012 by Kristi

A Note to all the RCMP detectives who frequent The Gaily on a daily basis; this story is not about me. I am straight, uncool and have only been to Montreal once. For Space Camp when I was 12. I remember hearing, prior to the passing of Bill C-38 in July 2005 and federal legislation […]

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Sex + Love

What is this Love? Part 2 “Soaked”

Posted August 1, 2011 by Kyle

Ouch. Ouch! Ok. I’m done. No more. James was my fuck buddy from a few years back. I was pretty pissed about the whole “Pablo” thing that I needed to take my mind off things. James was things, I guess. “What’s wrong?”, he asked in a what the fuck is wrong with you kinda way. […]

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