Dear Kristi, I am a PhD student at UBC and have been an academic and intellectual my whole life. Recently I met a guy at a bar that I was super attracted to, and we ended up hooking up. The next day I found out that he is a mail man. I don’t think of […]

Dear Kristi, Can you recommend good lubes for anal, vaginal, toys, etc? Sincerely, Bum-Player Dear Bum-Player, That’s a good question, because most people wouldn’t differentiate between those activities and the different lubes you should use. Lots of sexually adventurous and vanilla peeps alike would think that popping by your local Pharmaprix/Shoppers and picking up a […]

Hi GLBTQ people! I’m a straight, white 25-year-old girl and I’m here to give you advice on how to unlock your inner FABULOUS and talk about that abnormal place you like to put your junk (ie – bottoms!) and how to get it there. Because I KNOW gay people! Worst. Intro. Ever. Ok, so the […]

Dear Kristi, My girlfriend and I have pretty good girl-on-girl sex but I have been shy about introducing toys. Recently she brought up using strap-ons and dildos but I feel so awkward about the whole thing. I am worried that she wants to have sex with a guy and that is why she wants a […]

Dear Kristi, I am a 25-year-old straight girl with an any-girl problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for three months and he is wonderful, sensistive and carring. Unfortunately his sensitivity has become a bit of an issue. See, this is my first consensually sexual relationship. I lost my virginity when I was raped a few […]